As I was walking to the subway stop this morning, I was thinking about how my last post was a bit on the gloomy negative side.
haha...why I was in such a mood, I don't know. But my apologies.
Well then, so... right into it...(this one turned out
long you guys....) =/
Last last weekend, I went to my first "pro" soccer game
evvvveeeer.

It was exciting. Exciting because crowd behavior and the things people do to
accomodate them are always of great intrigue to me. The subway is PACKED. A ticket gate is open just for those going the opposite direction. People are happy. They chant. They jump. Well...kind of.
That's the thing about audiences in Japan....they're very reserved and ... boring. And if you laugh or say "
woooo", they give you dirty looks and roll their eyes at you. This isn't just at soccer games, this also happens
ALLLLLLLLL the time at the movie theater. It's tough to get
accostumed to!!! The first movie I saw here, was Iron Man. You know, there's action and comedy...and I get really involved in films....so if there's a big explosion, yea, i go, "
whoooooa, cool
oooo eee awhhhh", if there's a joke, I giggle...if it's good...we all know, I cackle. Although, I don't know how much i cackle at a movie -- the joke has to be REALLY good. And...you know....if there's romance, yea, I'll swoon a bit (translation --> I'll CRY my eyes out and use all my will power to not sniff so you won't know I've been crying since the opening sequence of the film). =P Whatever, I'm a typical audience reactor. Well...lemme tell you, people of my kind are not welcome in Japan. =( The audiences here are DEAD silent. It's so odd. Like I said, hard to get used to. I've seen quite a few films now here (they get many more Hollywood imports here than China, THANK "GOD")...and I'm still not entirely adjusted. It makes me sad, to have to control my natural emotions when watching a film. so
unnatural.
Anyhow, this REALLY smart kid at my school - whom I found out went to International School for 4 years when he was 5....agrees with me. It's silly and strange that Japanese are so reserved with their feelings, even when it's "superficial" like when watching a movie. He told me that I shouldn't change my behavior just because the Japanese are weird. -- his words! I responded, I do it out of respect. or...
embarrassment. or something. and he just nodded.Hm, strange
seg-way into this kid, but I
do want to mention about him. So I've been at this school now for what....3 months?? I only discovered this AMAZING kid here, like 3 weeks ago. How the hell did I go 2 months without knowing this kid existed!? He's AMAZING! I met him when I was grading his recitation test. I had to give the WHOLE school individual recitation tests. Boy, if you could here me recite them...
"Shimauta" was written and sung by a group called THE BOOM in Japan. One day in 2001, an Argentine singer happened to hear the song at a Japanese restaurant in Buenos Aires. He was struck by its melody and decided to sing it himself. It became a big hit in Argentina. "Shimauta" is now translated into many foreign languages. It is an Okinawan song many people of the world love today.That's what the 3rd graders had to memorize. Now imagine at lot of "rove" and "
Ja-
Pon" and "LON-
Wa-
Jee" ...s.What did the 1st graders have to recite you ask??...
Yuki's first trip to America.This is Yuki's first trip to America. Aunt Mari meets Yuki at Seattle-Tacoma Airport. They go downtown in Aunt Mari's car. Then they take a monorail to the Space Needle. It is a very short way. It takes only thirty seconds. There they meet Andy. They see the beautiful scenery from the Space Needle.Seattle is a very exciting city. It has a lot of good places. Yuki, Aunt Mari, and Andy go to the Seattle Center. In the center, Yuki buys a Seattle Mariners baseball cap for her father and some chocolate for her mother. Then they see a beautiful sunset. Yuki never forgets the day.This is what the kids are learning. Ha.
So there are 250 1st graders. 270 3rd graders. Yea. I heard that speech, THAT many times. ~sigh~. 2 weeks of my life right there. probably even 3.
And yes, that was all from memory. The other
JETs here are mortified when I recite that stuff. If I hear the word "
Shimauta" (I swear, I can pick it out of a crowd, 200 feet away now - very unncooool), my brain automatically goes into this uncontrollable recitation mode, and I start reciting the lesson out loud, without even really being aware of it - and of course, it's with bad Japanese intonation and
pronunciation. Gosh, it
is mortifying.
anyhow, I got off track...back to this kid. So he comes into the room, I've never recognized him before, he starts his recitation test like any other kid, and the entire time I'm dumbfounded. He sounds 100% American. More American than me. Where is this kid from!? Where has he been??? How is his English perfect? This is
bizarre.
Cuz I've forgotten what English is SUPPOSED to sound like. So I search for him during lunch...find him.
Loooooooong long long story short(er)...turns out he's one of the worst kids in school (in terms of bad behavior). He's the bad kid. the rebel. always in fights with the staff. Causing trouble in class, in the hallways.
Ok, he's not the
wooooorst...but he's pretty bad.
You know why?? Because these 4 years of International School (a school here in Sapporo, that teaches ALL lessons in English in a Western style of teaching - there is a mix of Japanese and foreign students there)...I dunno, gave him this Western perspective...or rather, opened his eyes to the world that actually exists outside Japan. YES, there
really is such a world, such a society. It's
sooooooooo strange and intriguing and exciting...this kid....he's SO smart. He's so intuitive. He has more of a Western way of thinking than any of the other kids here who actually
lived in America or Australia, etc. I'm not saying having a "Western way of thinking" is what makes him smart. It's just that he's aware of the options that are available to him outside of the Japanese bubble -- the bubble that no one else sees or is aware of. He can see that, silly rules like, you can't stay after school to talk to the English teacher (me) should be squandered. or rules like you can't visit other floors during the WHOLE day, unless you are going to class (1st graders are on first floor, 2
nd graders are on 2
nd floor, 3rd graders are on 3rd floor) -- are ridiculous because it creates this awful strange weird segregation between the ages -- and it's just silly for the sake of being silly. What's the purpose of this? Only classes one through four can use the bathroom on the left. Only classes five through seven can use the one on the right. You can't do this, and you can't do that. You aren't allowed to talk in the hallways after school, you have to be in a classroom. Until they say, wait, you can't be in the classroom, you have to be home. Are you kidding me!?? Teachers and parents pay money and invest stress and time into trying to get kids encouraged in school and pursuing it after hours - and the staff here just completely
discourages it. I don't understand it. But you know, I'm the outsider, so obviously the only role I can play is a complacent observer...but for this kid. Who sees all this too - it's really tough for him. So he rebels and fights a lot, against the teachers. Against the "establishment". He questions everything, all the time, and gets in trouble for it. Questioning things is not in the Japanese frame of mind. You just do what you're supposed to do, you do what others around you are doing.
Anyway, like I've said twice now, ... this kid is just amazing. Way cooler than any other kid I've mentioned before. He's just smart. He's street smart and he's book smart. He just needs to find a way out of the Japanese system or it may ruin him before he can put all his potential to use.
But isn't that SO FASCINATING!! It's totally this great child case study. Obviously, he's not a
stuuuudy, or some thing to be prodded at. But what I mean is....here's this kid, who's never left the confines of the city he was born in. Never travelled out of the country. His parents don't speak a WORD of English, other than maybe, hello and "see you". Yet, when he was 5, his friend was going to international school, and just out of a "I'm 5 years old and you're my
bestest friend in the world" - he asked his parents if he could go with his friend to I.S. his parents said yes. And he received schooling there for the next 4 years. And just having....Western teachers and Western lessons...however it happened. However his brain developed in those 4 years....it changed him. It showed this kid that questioning things is normal - it's human. That there's something outside our personal bubble. Outside the society bubble we live in. etc etc etc. blah blah blah. but you get what I'm saying, yes? maybe?? Anyway, it's FASCINATING. the influences one can have on a kid. How completely different a kid can be influenced by changing his environment. Had he not gone to I.S., he wouldn't be a quarter of the person he is today - this really smart, aware, intelligent, awesome kid.
hahaGosh....these things, always sound better in my head when im in the shower. =)
Anyhow...
tangent after tangent after tangent. So...
Japanese people don't react in theaters - I'm telling you, they're like dead cold ghosts. through the ENTIRE movie! No matter what movie it is. it's
eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeerie. i
dont like it. =(
but...like i said...complacent observer is all we (as foreigners) can do.
anyhow...so the same goes for the soccer game. I was hollering and screaming and
ooing and
ahhing. I mean,
christ, it was my first game. i was
exciiiiiiiiiiiiiiiited!!! Even if Sapporo's team is the last ranked in Japan.
haha. DOESN'T MATTER!!! It's fun!!! You get your hot dog, and your
slushie. and you just scream
everytime a player falls down for no reason (which
btw, I learned happens
ALLLLLLLLLLLL the time in soccer - I never knew. It's absolutely absurd and hilarious. i LOVE it)
haha.
so...u know, I got laughs f

rom the couple in front of me. "o silly foreigner". And the family next to me just fumed and gave me DIRTY
diiiirty looks the whole game. I quieted down after the first 30 minutes,
cuz it was getting awkward. and then you know, my fun was dampened a little.but i didn't go silent. so...it was still fun. I enjoyed myself. Our team lost, but no biggie. It was way fun just hanging out with the gang.
O, and...they're soccer field is indoors. INDOORS! Now I'm sure (I mean, duh, i KNOW) we have indoor stadiums in the states...
soooomewhere. But definitely no where in or around CA. And I've only seen a handful of pro games in my lifetime. So seeing an outdoor sport, played inside a
HUUUGE dome, was strange. You sort of feel claustrophobic after a while. Like...you're breathing in dirty air. dirty congested
used air or something. it's odd. and you feel like you need to see big bright lights or sun or something.
o well.
also with Japanese crowds -- so most of them are super quiet and reserved. And just watch the game with very little reaction. When the team actually scores a goal or blocks a goal, maybe there's a holler here and there, but no one really stands up.
Except for some "designated" area or something...it seemed. Like it was designated for people who wanted to cheer. In this area, at both ends (each team got their own area, of course)....all the people just stood up and jumped up and down and chanted the same 3 phrases over and over again, for 2 hours. 2 STRAIGHT hours. The same jumping up and down followed by the same phrase. over and over again.
haha... very exciting to watch. I was probably watching the crowd behavior more than the actual game - I have a tendency to do that. I like to people watch, what can I say.
I DID see on the opposing side, 3 guys with their shirts off. which is a HUGE "whoa" in Japan. But, it was the last game of the season, before the finals, and the other team is #1 in the league...so i guess 3 guys with the shirt off is justified.
So yea, soccer game was fun. Maybe next year I can get around to posting some pictures. ha.
(it's almost 2009!!!!!!!
whooooa whoa
waa wee)
Annnnd, this weekend...
quuuuick recap...
hmmm...
saturday....
saturday saturday saturday...o, it was a friend's
bday. That was fun. We went to the tasty beer hall. O, and went swimming beforehand. MAN, it feels GOOD to swim. It's expensive here...but it's worth it. I've been going at least twice a week now. I'm hoping in
january, to start going at least 4 times -- we've got a good group of us willing to sign up at the new gym down the street - a little pricey. But they've got a nice pool too...plus the general gym equipment. And if I can just find a good group to build a steady routine....maybe I can finally burn off the rest of this excess weight.
yup yup. excited.
so did that.
sunday....had a
christmas party thrown by my Japanese teacher.
IT WAS SOOOOO MUCH FUN!!! Haha, the best cheezy fun I've had in a LONG time. Oooo how I miss the cheezy fun. We had all you can drink alcohol...and karaoke and bingo. and yummy food. And prizes. With a bunch of people in kimonos, other JETs who share the same teacher, and some other students of hers in between.
Our tutor/teacher whatever you call her...she teaches kimono dressing, Japanese, and calligraphy.

So it was a good crowd. and she's just SO amazing. Gosh...how I LOVE her.
It was
a lot of fun. =)
well I've hogged the computer at school for MUCH too long now. Hope this post was of better spirits to you all then the last. =)
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